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Kathy Thomas's avatar

Do you know What Looks Good? YOU DO. Full stop. Not “for your age.” Happiest of birthdays to you!

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Jolain Muller's avatar

Thanks so much, Kathy. I'm smiling as I type this!!!

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Camilla's avatar

Happy birthday Jolain! 🎈 this was a beautiful read, I loved your reflections. So sorry to hear about your health crisis and you don’t look 65!! Amazing genes and I truly believe age is but a number xx

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Jolain Muller's avatar

Thank you Camilla, so kind of you. Truth is I really don’t feel I’m that old! Thanks for being here for me from the start! ❤️

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Lorraine Evanoff's avatar

What a great insider's perspective. Thanks! And Happy Birthday!

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Jolain Muller's avatar

Thanks Lorraine, so glad you liked it!

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Rhian E's avatar

Can relate to this - we were also in Spain in the blackout, but without any gas grill, we ‘survived’ on cold food - gazpacho no hardship! Nothing to do but chill by the pool. Next day we rushed to purchase a battery radio, charging pack for the phones and draw out some euros. First world problems ….

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Jolain Muller's avatar

Hi Rhian! Welcome and thanks for subscribing. The worst part of the blackout was the unknown; other than that, I loved being unplugged!

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Stephanie's avatar

Bravo! Happy Birthday. Wishing you a new year of good health and great memories ❤️

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Jolain Muller's avatar

Thank you, Stephanie!

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Kevin Robles's avatar

Omg what a story!!! When I heard about the blackout, I won’t lie, knowing you’re on Europe, I hoped you were alright, but now I see you’re in the best company! Happy birthday to you, dear Jolain, may the best be en route for you. And thank you for sharing this story with us. I hope you keep enjoying your Spanish holiday and all of everything surrounding you. You deserve it!

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Jolain Muller's avatar

Thank you so much, Kevin! I'm so touched you even thought of me. I'm ready to defect to Spain! xxx

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Eric Gaskins's avatar

Happy Birthday and Brava !!!! 😘❤️🥳😍🥰🫶🏾 Like everything in life, you face challenges head on and figure out the solution! Brava Lovey !!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️XT

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Jan's avatar

When I had my fortieth birthday, some decades ago, I remember feeling a bit low about it. More than that I remember what my father said. " Forty! Forty! What are you going on about. We all want to be forty!" I'm sure there are plenty of your followers out there even now thinking, 65 ! Yes I remember being 65. It's still a thing for women more than for men I think. Enjoy the rest of your hols.

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Jolain Muller's avatar

Hi Jan, I had a similar feeling when I hit forty. The last birthday I fully embraced was thirty. I felt on top of the world, I was in love, had a great job, and was travelling a lot. The biggest difference for me now is the feeling that there is more behind me than ahead of me, but I now realize that is wasted energy; every day is a gift, embrace it, and forget about age. Thanks for your wise words!

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Laetitia Maklouf's avatar

Happy birthday!

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Jolain Muller's avatar

Thank you, Laetitia!!!

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Andrea Lacerda's avatar

Happy Birthday, glad you are owning it as you should. You know I am right behind you. I feel privileged to have reached this age and embrace it! Glad you survived the blackout. Loved reading your post today. Enjoy the rest of your trip!

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Jolain Muller's avatar

You're a wise soul, Andrea, always have been. xxx

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Lu's avatar

A very happy belated birthday! When I first heard about the blackout my FIRST thought was “oh no..Jolains holiday!!”…However,you have emerged gracefully and honestly and it’s such a pleasure to share in this.The night sky must have been revelatory…

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Jolain Muller's avatar

Hi Lu, What a beautiful comment, so kind of you to think of me. I'm sure I won't remember the stress of not knowing how long the blackout would last, but I'll never forget that star-filled sky.

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Kiki's avatar

HBD—such a beautiful smile! XO

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Jolain Muller's avatar

Thanks, so glad you’re here!

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Jean Brown's avatar

Happy Birthday, Jolain! Welcome to the club!

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Jolain Muller's avatar

Thanks Jean you make it look easy!

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Jennie Rogers's avatar

Thanks for your thoughts about owning your age. I’m 64 later this month - that was hard to say - so it’s inspiring. Wish you the best year.

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Jolain Muller's avatar

Thank you Jennie, I’ve been vague about my age for so long it’s actually a relief to just own it.

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Heather's avatar

Happy Birthday! I'm enjoying your substack as it, along with The Flair Index, are smartly written, display great style and are amazingly relatable - especially considering that my budget is notably smaller. :-)

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Jolain Muller's avatar

Thanks Heather! I’m so glad you’re here and putting me in such good company.

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Maria Haka Flokos's avatar

A very Happy Birthday to you. Best wishes for a carefree, creative year!

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Jolain Muller's avatar

Thanks Maria, and thanks for being a loyal reader from the start! ❣️

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Maria Haka Flokos's avatar

My pleasure! A Happy month of May to you! 🌹

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